Debora Coty, an internationally published columnist and sought after speaker (Deb is a gifted humorist), entered the publishing world at mid-life. With a bang! Find Debora on-line at www.DeboraCoty.com.
Q: Debora, you have written that you consider yourself a “late bloomer” as a writer. What do you mean by that?
A: The fertilizer didn’t kick in for a few decades.
I didn’t start writing until my youngest chick flew the coop; I was 45 and winding up a 25-year career as an occupational therapist and 20-year stint as a piano teacher. Not exactly recommended training for a writing career.
Q: How did you get started as a writer? Did you have specific goals in mind?
A: I was an avid reader growing up and always dreamed of writing an inspirational young adult novel like Christy by Catherine Marshall (I devoured it nine times as a teen). Christy had a huge impact on my life (The escaped hatchling referred to above is named…can you guess?…Christy!). I wanted to touch someone else’s heart and faith the way Christy touched mine. I recently ran across a list of “Five Things I Want to Do Before I Die” I’d written as an idealistic 16-year-old. Number three was “Write a book.” (Number four was “Jump out of an airplane” but I’m waiting until I’m 80 for that one.)
Alas, life, as life tends to do, intervened and college, marriage, career, and babies waylaid my plans. Then one day in the dentist’s office, I saw a magazine ad for a writing contest and God said, “It’s time.”
I think every writer needs goals. My original goals were to write two books (one fiction, one non-fiction) and publish one hundred articles within ten years. It’s been four years now and I’ve had over sixty articles published and have completed three books, so I’ve revised my first decade goals to two hundred articles and eight books. And a partridge in a pear tree. (Articles and book excerpts can be accessed at www.DeboraCoty.com.)
Q: Do you feel that you have one genre that best suits you? Or have you tried other genres?
A: Um, yes and yes. My first book, a young adult inspirational novel, The Distant Shore, will be released this August by Vintage. My second book is a humorous inspirational women’s book, Smiles to Go Before I Sleep: Hugs, Humor, and Hope for Harried Moms. (My agent is pitching it to publishers as we speak.) My magazine and anthology articles started out as first person anecdotal accounts of God’s amazing grace notes in my life (grace notes are a musical device that aren’t essential to the melody, but add beauty, depth, and dimension for enrichment). When I took on a monthly humorous newspaper column, my writing took a definite turn toward the wild and wacky. I enjoy writing fiction but I believe my divine calling is creative humorous non-fiction (yes, non-fiction can and should be creative!).
Q: How easy (or how difficult) was it for you to get published?
A: Well, remember my brain was atrophied and menopausally unbalanced when I started! I wasn’t sure where to begin! I studied every “how to” I could get my hands on and gave myself a crash course in grammar, style, and punctuation. I hadn’t had English since high school and didn’t know a dangling participle from a dipwad. I thought those three little dots were called eclipses…
I also found an experienced writing mentor (a friend of a friend of a friend) in the inspirational magazine genre and we met for latte’s at a coffee shop monthly to share writer’s guidelines, leads, and tips. It was because of Austine’s patient guidance on how to appear less amateurish and more polished that I was blessed with ten published articles that first year. I eventually became more of a peer than a ment-ee and reciprocated by editing Austine’s work.
Austine even wrote an article about us called, “Why You Need a Writer Buddy” that appeared in the March/April 2005 issue of Writers’ Journal.
Q: What aspect of God do you hope readers take away after reading your articles and books?
A: My entire focus and reason for writing is to share the everyday miracles my heavenly father has performed in my life and to plant and water seeds of hope in the lives of other struggling believers who feel stuck in the muck of everyday stress. Even with mud between our toes, we can live that abundant life Christ promised in John 10:10 and come out the other end of the motherhood tunnel smiling!
Q: What do you most love about the writing life?
A: The terrific hours and outstanding pay. And the fact that nobody can look you in the eyes through your computer monitor and tell you’re lying through your teeth. Plus you can write with greasy hair and bad breath and your computer is never offended.
Q: What do you least love about the writing life?
A: The terrific hours and outstanding pay. It’s now 2 a.m. and I have two dollars in my wallet for lunch tomorrow. Does that tell you anything?
Q: What advice do you have for aspiring writers?
A: Stop! Stop right now! Stop limiting your potential by fear (Go on! Submit that piece!), low expectations (If God gave you the assignment to write, He will use your abilities to His glory beyond anything you can imagine), or lack of energy (“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak,” Isaiah 40:29).
Learn to view rejection simply as an occupational hazard. Persevere through all those rejection slips like jockeys deal with horse-poo. Step over the piles, wipe the nasty off your boots, and keep moving forward.
Q: What projects are you working on now?
A: I’m simultaneously starting the sequel to The Distant Shore (it’s called Billowing Sails) and completing a book co-written with three wonderful gals, Grit for the Oyster: Devotions for Aspiring Writers. We got together through a writer’s conference last year and hope to help other fledgling writers with a combination of encouragement, scripture application, inspiration, and advice from established authors, publishers, and agents. Look for Grit for the Oyster in bookstores and writer’s conferences in early 2008!
Thank you so much for having me, Suzanne – I’m a big fan of yours! And I’m thrilled to hear that a major film company is considering aquiring film right to your wonderful novel, Copper Star. You go, girl!
It sounds as though Debora is an inspiration to many. I am truly amazed how an almost unrecognizable nudge from God, cultivated in the soil of a rich heart, can blossom into something so grandiose & wonderful. What an encouragement to know that new life sprung from such humble beginnings can sprout into such a beanstalk of ministry. -a little fairy tale metaphor 🙂
We’ve been programmed to think toward retirement by the time we’re in our mid 40’s and yet you were audacious enough to commandeer a new career at that age. Bless you!
Just about everybody I know says that they want to become an author one day but most of us will likely have an epitaph with the following words engraved below our laundry list of dreams, “Things that you can’t do when you’re dead”! Your life is stimulation enough to spark a desire to shorten that list.
If your offerings are written as well as your cogent, witty answers here, please let me be the first to purchase a copy of your newest work. I’m not a Mom but I think it’s rather clear that all Moms are either harried, hopeless, or hungry for anything that can give them peace and joy (in that order!). Humor sounds like your gift from God in bringing that message to the lives of His needy children.
I’ll share a word from the Apostle Paul with you as you continue to blaze new trails.
“My purpose is that they may be encouraged in heart and united in love, so that they may have the full riches of complete understanding, in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely, Christ,” Colossians 2:2
Blessings eternal,
Johnny Moses <><
Debora writes with wit, color, and homespun humor. I love her authenticity.
Thank you for telling your readers about her and her newest book. I look forward to reading it!
What an inspirational story of how good God is to “His children” to give them the desires of their hearts! How many people fail to achieve their life-long dreams fearing failure and defeat? We all need to remember that God can use us at any age and that we are never too old to pursue our dreams. Life actually begins all over again when our children are grown. It’s just that most of us don’t seize the opportunity.
Debora Coty obviously has kept her dream alive for many years while raising her family and then persevered to break into the writer’s market.
I think her writing will reflect the person she has become through her years of life’s experiences. I am looking forward to reading her books!
Best wishes to you as you begin your new career!
Sandi
You never know, when you run into someone at a conference, that they might ‘be’ Somebody. I had no idea Debora was so accomplished, yet she’s been sooo generous with her friendship and advice. I can’t wait to see her book(s) released, starting in August.
Georgia love,
Cindy Morrow
http://www.cindymorrow.net
Debora is a gifted writer and story teller, I am excited to read her new book when it comes out in August. I have read some of her articles and I am always encourgaged.
I have read some forthcoming articles by Debora that showcase her talent in a cocooning environment and anxiously await to see her burst out with her first novel. Her passion, authentic warmth, catch-phrases and personality is a refreshing antedote to the rigid formality of interviews.
Kathryn Valdes
I have enjoyed your interview with Debora. I have known Debbie for over 20 years as a fellow Occupational Therapist, friend, Christian, wife, and mother . I know that she has been polishing and developing her writing skills for some years now. Now I am excited to learn more about this side of her! We have shared mother – night – out one or two times a year together with three other girlfriends. Together we have shared the trials and joys of raising a family and having God’s grace help us in so many ways.
I am looking forward to read your soon to be released book, Deb!
God Bless You.
Your Spanish friend,
Nicky
Fun to read interview and learning more about Debbie’s writing-side. Very authentic writing since it sounds like she is talking. Looking forward to reading more of her offerings.
As the old saying goes……. it’s never too late. I’m glad to read that Debora learned that lesson and is persuing her dream. God’s timing is always perfect.
God bless you Debora.